Happy New Year! 2017!

Happy New Year everyone!


I hope 2017 is a wonderful and loving year for all of us!


Hugs and Love,


Megan

Bullies and Blackmailers

Happy Thanksgiving!

I hope you and your family are having a wonderful day! We'll be having about twenty people here today (maybe a few more) and the upside of that is a lot of hands to help in the kitchen!

With that I hope you all have a blessed and Happy Thanksgiving!

_________________________________________________________

Now I'm taking a moment this morning to post about how I've managed to attract the attention of another bully/blackmailer. This is someone I angered or upset on another website who decided to stalk me on the internet and try to scare me by threatening to "reveal" things about me to my friends on this blog.

After some consideration and discussion with a very wise person I've decided to take away this person's thrill by being up front about some things. For the people who know me from Yahoo Messenger there won't be too many surprises here. I've already shared most of this with you.

For the people who only know me from this blog there may be some surprises and if they upset you or disappoint you then I'm sorry.

In no particular order here goes:

* I am moderating comments for now because once again someone thinks they have a right to use my blog as a weapon to hurt me. To quote no end of basketball players: "Not in my house!"

You don't get to use this space as a place to hurt me. Not now, not ever.

* The bully accuses me of using a friendlier 'voice' on this blog than I do on other places in the net and that's true. Here I always feel like I am talking to my friends and I speak differently to my friends than I do to sometimes hostile strangers on the net. I think I am using my internet voice right now and not my 'speaking to friends' voice.

* It's not the first time I've been accused of being a boy/man. I've been hearing this kind of thing ever since junior high school. I sometimes get compared to Ann Coulter if that helps. I don't think I need to say anything more on this.

* I don't sound like other people and that's true. I am somewhat autistic and with that comes an above average amount of narcissism and an inability to perceive certain emotions. One of my close friends says I am 'emotionally color blind'. It's not that I don't understand the feelings of other people it's just that I don't feel them myself sometimes. Some people think I'm cold that way and maybe I am but it's who I am.

* I do not post a lot about my family anymore and is it any wonder why when there's people out on the net who want to use every bit of information to try to stalk you, track you down, and act as if they have some sort of power over you? I've had one stalker come to the ranch and that was pretty scary. Now that I have children I am going to make clear that the next crazy person who shows up on the ranch to try to prove some insane point is absolutely positively going to get shot. I am not going to risk the safety of my family or myself trying to play any more crazy games with anyone. Period.

* I was raped when I was sixteen. This is not a secret. This being a mostly family friendly blog anymore I don't post on here that my sexual responses are skewed. I get aroused by forceful sex and it's not because I'm into rape it's because I'm a masochist and at some level I don't get aroused unless there's an element of "I deserve this" in the mix. Bluntly, I'm fucked up and I know it. Anyone reading this blog and who knows me off of the blog knows it too. Yes, I've tried therapy and the best advice I received was to not worry about trying to not be this way but to accept that it's part of who I am.

* I do not have a formal college education but I know a lot of things. Prior to joining my family I didn't really have that many resources for education and school for myself was not about education it as just about trying to do enough to graduate and get it over with. After joining my family I was embarrassed that Steve's older daughters were younger than me and they knew so much more than I did. I redid high school as a home school curriculum, worked on my attention problems, and after I got reading glasses found that I liked to read.

Steve has a huge library of political and military books and that's what was there to read and now I like some of that stuff and I also like to read fiction! I NEVER read any fiction growing up and now I read it all the time. I'm right now reading the story Ivanhoe and then will be working my way through a collection of classic stories that the older girls had.

I'm also trying to work on my writing. I write what's on my mind and some of it's offensive to some people (I'm effed up, right?).

* I post on political sites and one in particular I favor called Free Republic. What got me started on the site is that it's all text with no advertising and it's easy to use over a really bad wifi/DSL connection. Yahoo Messenger is mostly useless to me anymore because it's hard to use unless I'm on the computer and no one else is using the net at the same time. I also post on chicken discussion groups, cooking forums, family forums, and breast feeding forums. I had an account on Tumblr which was an outlet for me and that's been ruined by this bully.

I have NOT had active accounts on dating or poly dating sites since I met my family on the Sac Poly Yahoo Group site. About four or five years ago an internet stalker/bully/idiot signed me up for a pile of dating sites and some really disgusting things and all but one of the dating sites ended up cancelling the accounts for me. The one site let me change the password and after I removed all of the content from the profile the account has been inactive ever since.

* I am an autodidact. That means I am self-taught. I learned that from someone on Free Republic...which is part of why I like that site. I've learned a lot there. In the past year or so I've made a serious effort to improve my vocabulary and I intend to use it whether or not it upsets anyone else.

* I'm obsessive compulsive. It is not a disorder to me because I direct it to things where it becomes a gift and not a curse. I like repetitive things like quilting so I make quilts and donate them to people who need them. I've mastered target shooting much to the joy of my husband! I'm also taking up knitting.

I hope none of this bothers any of you but there it is.

And to the person who felt like it was his/her personal mission in life to attack me I'd like to invite you to go to hell. You will not scare me or intimidate me.

- Megan

+ Seven!!!

My big news is that I am confirmed pregnant with my seventh baby! I'm about six weeks along and due in the middle of June! It's crazy I know but I'm really happy about it and we're going to have at least three infants all at the same time here!


The reality that our nice house isn't big enough has Steve planning a new part of the house to connect the guest house to the main house and that will make it all one big house. It's too late in the season to do anything right now but he is thinking to start on it in the spring. He's agreed to make the extension look just like the rest of the house so it fits in. Our old house in California was kind of bad with it being like four different houses all up against each other and it looked tacky.


To answer the two questions on the last post that look like they're from the same person:


1. Are you going to delete your Yahoo account like so many other poly people are doing right now?


A: Why would I delete my Yahoo account? I changed the password and that should be fine.


2. So if your daughters want to get married at 16 to some older man are you going to be okay with it?


A: Yes, I will. I mean it has to be legal but I'd say yes if that's what they wanted to do. I wish I had done that myself and I wish I knew I could have done it. My parents probably would have been happy to get me out of the house anyway.


I don't know why people get so upset about this kind of thing because it used to be normal in the USA. My great-grandmother was 13 when she married my 16yo great-grandfather in Nebraska and no one thought they were crazy or anything it was just normal. Not every girl should be forced to go to college and have massive college debts that she can't ever pay off. There is NOTHING wrong with wanting to grow up to be a mom and a wife and I'm really not that patient with people who think you're a loser if you want to be old fashioned.


My question now to everyone else is do you think it's wrong for a 16yo girl to get married and start a family if that's what she wants to do? Also, please say when/if you got married and why that was right for you or if you'd do it any other way.


Happy Fall to everyone!


Hugs and Love,


Megan

Answers to some questions...

Good Morning and Happy Thursday!

I received some questions on email from someone who just wants to go by "J" and here they are:

Do you and your sister wives do any prenatal care outside the home?  

Yes, we have a doctor in town and she's cool with us.

Do you have a OB/Gyn that visits you?  

Yes, the same doctor.

Do you prefer to birth naturally, in your home?  What about your sister wives?  

Yes, we do! I had to have the twins in the hospital but the rest of my kids and all of them (I hope) will be born at home. It's just a lot nicer and there's no social workers to deal with afterwards.

Do you or your sisters use a birthing pool to have your babies?

No. We have a big shower in the master bathroom and that's where we do it because it's tons easier to clean up.

What do you think of unassisted childbirth or orgasmic childbirth?

Hate to say I don't know what that is.

 

(After I replied to him I looked it up here: http://www.unassistedchildbirth.com/ )

Do you and your sisters help each other with the births?  Such as delivering each other’s babies?  Or does Steve get involved here?

The OB/Gyn or sometimes a midwife comes out to the house and everyone else is usually involved too. It's a family thing and the older kids sometimes will get to see a baby born.

 

And Andrew had a question if Steve was trying to give me a baby and the answer as usual is yes! LOL!

 

There you go!

 

Megan

Happy September!!

It's  September again and it's the start of my happy season: Fall!

I love the summer and running around without shoes and getting to wear sun dresses, shorts, and tanks, but fall is my favorite season! It's the start of the time when the evenings have a chill in the air and when I can grab a child and pull him close and it's not too hot to enjoy cuddle time!

Tomorrow is my 26th birthday and while we don't have too much planned I know there will be some lovely surprises in store for me tomorrow and I can't wait!

The season starts off with baby news because Cydne is for sure pregnant again and is due around the end of May next year. Christie QUIT her job after a lot of years and is going to be home 24/7 from now on and I can't tell you all how happy that makes me to have her home! Amy is doing well and has her two month anniversary soon and she's starting to relax a bit and enjoy how we do things our own way back here at the ranch.

My little Laura is wearing glasses now and she is nearsighted with an astigmatism and the eye doctor says it is pretty common for red heads. She's not too bad with the eyesight but was pretty happy to be able to see a lot further than before and spent the last week telling us all about all the things around the ranch!

The election craziness is pretty wild. It's crazy how Donald Trump became a racist and all those awful things only after he said he was running for President. Before that everyone liked him just fine. To me he just seems like an awful lot of people I know who just say what they think without trying to make it sound like something they don't think. That used to be called honesty but people don't like honesty anymore.

Hillary looks sick and it seems like a lot of people are not wanting to think about it. You just look at her in 2008 and look at her now and you see it plain as day. Doesn't mean she's too sick to do the job but she's got something going on and I pray for her healing and for her peace.

People are getting up now and it's time for me to go get breakfast started so I hope you all have a wonderful September and the start of fall!

Hugs!

Megan

August 22, 2016 - Answers to questions!

I'm just going to keep this one simple and answer some questions:

Helene asked about the apples and we put in Mutsu apples and they have to be sprayed with an anti-biotic which is kind of weird but they get a disease that can spread so they get sprayed when they're in fruit.

Anonymous asked: List the ten dumbest things you ever did!

(Just ten? LOL!)

Okay:

1. Jumped off a 60 foot tall bridge into maybe ten feet of water...never again!!

2. Got crazy drunk when I was 15...ugh.

3. I didn't go out with a certain boy when he asked me out...I missed out on a really nice guy!

4. My whole three days working at Starbucks.

5. A thong bikini.

6. Doing a jump on a snowboard...I discovered I can't jump on a snowboard!

7. "Sure, I can cook five turkeys for a family dinner!"

8. Petting a rooster.

9. No, it's not a cute dog, it's a coyote.

10. And my dumbest thing ever: We had a portable milking machine for the cattle and we don't have cattle anymore so I figured it's just like a breast pump, right? Let's just say that it was funny!!!

And bison are TONS easier than cattle! Bison almost totally take care of themselves, they don't need to go in the barns when it's cold, they know not to be out in the open during lightning, and they kill wolves and dogs. We used to have three or four full-time hands on the ranch for the cattle and now we just hire hands when we're bringing them in PLUS we get more per pound on bison than cattle!

July 31, 2016

Thank you to everyone for their thoughts about the passing of my mom. I really appreciate that so many people who really don't know me that well would care so much! You're all very wonderful people!

We spread my mom's ashes on the mountain up behind our ranch and it was crazy to walk back to the house after that and know that her whole life and who she was is just over. At least she got to see her grandchildren and that's a good thing.

I will admit still having mixed feelings. I wish I were more upset but my mom was more or less not around anymore after she met meth and meth was the love of her life. We had some nice moments the past few years but in the middle of it all she would lie and I think she even stole from me the last time she was at the house. Somewhere along the line I will either let it go or just move on.

At home we've had some changes. Christie is going to be away on work most of the time for a while so I'm actually the senior wife around the house most of the time now and that's weird. Steve is home a lot these days and we also added our helper Amy to the family and she and Steve are working on a baby. Steve is working on that same thing with me and Cydne, too. It won't be long before there's news from someone!

Life at the ranch is good. We sold off some of the bison herd and got $4.55 a pound and that was pretty awesome. We had a good calving season so we're actually up by almost ten head even after the sale so next year looks pretty good, too!

We put in 30 apple trees this week and we're hoping that they make it through the winter and maybe we'll have apples in a few years. Next year we'll put up a deer fence to stop the critters from eating the leaves and fruit before they show up bot for right now they just need to grow.

I got my first dental crown and that was actually nice. I didn't realize how much pain I was in from my tooth until the dentist fixed it. My left side of my mouth had swollen up so it was dentist time and he said it was a bad filling and the good news was it didn't need a root canal. My lesson is to go to the dentist more often.

We've been getting a LOT of contacts from people in the media wanting to do programs on poly people and we've been saying no. We don't want the attention. I guess it's thing with the media right now.

It's been a long time since I really wrote too much and it would be nice to answer any questions if anyone has them. So ask away!

Hope you all had a wonderful July!

Megan

My mom died.

I found out this week that my mom died back in March. It was drugs. She was 47 and I can't believe she's gone. I thought she was doing better and was keeping clean but I guess that was just something she was saying to me.

June 12, 2016

Just a quick post before I got to get going!

Our helper Amy moved in on Wednesday and OMG has she made a difference! So wonderful to have an extra pair of hands in the house! And she is probably staying on as wife #4 and that will be wonderful!

Both Steve and Christie are gone on work but we get Christie back in a couple weeks and that will be nice. Steve is busy for the summer and that is a very good thing because the oil business just stopped and really hasn't come back yet.

No baby news for now mostly because Steve hasn't been here. The family is doing fine. My little Patty got her first pair of glasses and she's having fun seeing things for the first time that she couldn't see before. It's been fun to be with her and discover the world all over again!

Not much poly news. Have to say I am disappointed that poly isn't legal yet but I guess I have to be patient.

I have two nice friends I am pen pals with and they make me think of things that I don't think I've ever shared here:

1. Kitchen Bouquet is an amazing thing to have for making tasty beef/bison/pork gravies!!!

2. Being a nanny is a great way to learn about having a family of your own!

3. And a lot of people are talking about politics and it's sad that the three people running are the best we can do. So our choices are the guy with the weird hair, the crazy old man who wants to try communism, and the lady who has AWFUL taste in clothes and then spends CRAZY money so she can look like a Romulan from Star Trek!!!



We all need to pray for our country!

Have a wonderful and blessed day everyone!

Megan

Questions from Richard

Hi there!

I checked the blog and found some questions and will answer them in a moment. Steve is away on work and so is Christie so Cydne and me are having some time together and it's been kind of nice. Hope you're all doing well!

Okay so here are the questions and my answers.

1. Was your first time with Steve nonconsensual or semi-consensual? I get the idea you're not 100% into it.

It's complicated. I wanted to do it, I said I would, and I was scared. Pretty normal from what everyone tells me so I don't think it was anything but just a normal time with my husband.

2. What do you think of childbirth and pregnancy after doing it as much as you have?

The whole thing never stops being a miracle to me!!! It's always crazy when I find out I'm pregnant and then it's amazing when I get to meet this new person in my life for the first time!

3. Do you ever get jealous when Steve is with another wife?

Sometimes. I'd be lying if I said anything else.

4. Will there be a new fourth wife?
Pretty safe to say yes.

5. Is Steve working or is he off work like most oil field workers these days?

He is working but it was nice having him home so I'm looking forward to winter again when he'll be here a lot.

6. If you had not chosen poly what do you think you would be doing with your life at age 26?

Drugs like my parents maybe? A loser job? College was never going to happen so maybe the best would be a job somewhere and maybe meet someone.

7. What do you think about when you're having sex? Is it all passion or what?

Just had the same kind of thought in a letter I wrote to a friend. Sometimes I enjoy it and I get into it and other times it is something I do because it is something I am supposed to do. Sometimes there's passion and other times it's like brushing your teeth. I mean I love being close with Steve but sometimes it's just something I do for him and not really much for me.

Hope that answers that for you.

April 10, 2016

Good afternoon everyone!

I had a couple requests for an update so here it is.

We'll start with saying that I am purposefully not saying too much with the children because we're worried about their privacy both now and years from now. With everything on the internet lasting forever we are afraid that the children might have problems as adults if their history comes up. It's just the way things are.

Steve is at home all the time now. The work he had building new locations in the oilfields is over at least until oil prices go up again and we all know they will. But for now he is at home every day and that's been really nice. He's out on the ranch getting a lot of things done like a couple new wells and grading and paving a new road to the back of our property. He paved the two mile road from the main road to the house and it's really nice. It's tons smoother than the local roads around here and it's fun to drive on! The kids love having him home all the time and I think they're all used to the idea that he's not going to have to leave for work anytime soon.

Christie is buried in her work and when she is done she and I are going to drive to Arizona for her to do a little business in Prescott but then we're going to see Sedona, the Grand Canyon, and Las Vegas before we come home! I've never seen those places before and it should be fun! Cydne is staying home with all the children and the babies and we have a helper coming in to help out for the nine whole days we're gone! I LOVE my children but the thought of just getting to be me and not "MOMMY!!!" for nine days seems amazing! I will post some pictures when we get back!

Cydne is doing fine and has been having fun starting her own garden this year. I am still doing my quilting work and cooking every day. Christie is mostly busy with work but is trying to read when she can. Steve works all the time but he's also been practicing his shooting more just because he says he is out of practice.

With Steve home I expect all three of us women will have baby news before too long. Christie especially wants another baby this year and both Cydne and I just know it won't be long before we start making plans for new babies in 2017.

That's really about everything that is going on for right now. Just one more thing...

I had a message from a documentary producer and while we will not be doing this I did want to share his very nice letter in case anyone wanted to talk to him about helping him:

My name is Nico, I'm a television producer for PSG Films in Seattle, Washington. We create documentary series for Discovery, National Geographic, TruTV, and others. 

I stumbled upon your blog while researching polygamous families for a new TLC series! I'm sure you have been approached before regarding your own family or any others that you know that might be interested in participating in a documentary program, if so, let me know! Otherwise, it would be great to connect with you and speak on the phone. Contact me any time!

Wishing you the best, 

Nico Murphy

Field Producer

PSG Films

nico@psgfilms.com

C: 785.640.8430

Questions from Jay D. and answers from Megan!

I got this in email just now and wanted to answer it before I went outside! My answers are in blue!

Hi Megan,

I am considering entering into the poly lifestyle.  I am getting somewhat serious with a woman who will become my first wife.  We are both very excited and sincerely want to pursue this as a lifestyle. 

I have a few practical questions. 

How many wives and children are in your family currently?  Am I correct in that it is currently You, Christie, and Cydne? 

Yes, it's Christie, Cydne, and myself. Christie currently has four children, Cydne has two, and I have six.

 What kind of vehicle(s) does Steve own to cart you all around in?  does he have a big 15 passenger van or something? 

Funny you ask because the one vehicle we don't have is a big van! We almost never go out all of us at the same time so this has never really been a big problem. And we have trucks and SUV's that can all get around in the snow.
Are any females currently pregnant in your family?  or actively trying to get that way?

No one is pregnant right now but both Christie and Cydne are working on it and I imagine one of them will be expecting some time soon!

How large is the home you live in?  How many bedrooms, baths, living spaces, etc.  What are the sleeping arrangements for the adults and the children usually?  How large is the farm you live on?  What kind of crops & animals do you raise?  Does the farm turn a profit?  Or is it just kind of a hobby? 

We have a ranch that has a few buildings and a guest house. Right now no one is living in the guest house so we have enough room in the main house for everyone. The kids share rooms and sometimes so do the adults! (-:

We have a ranch and about two acres of it is for a farm. It's mostly for us but we give away the excess to people at church. We have been running bison for a few years now and they're tons easier to take care of than cattle and you don't have to worry about them with the cold and predators as much. The ranch turns a profit or we wouldn't be doing it!

Have you and Steve and the sisters discussed how many kids would be too many?  Is there ever a point where Steve might stop wanting to have more babies just because the house is full, or for financial reasons?

Nope.

Do all you sister wives, and Steve all own a legal share in the house and property?  How is this handled legally and with the family finances?  Was there some kind of prenuptial agreement that had arrangements for if the unthinkable happened (Like Macy & Shari leaving).

Everyone of the adults has an equal share in everything and like when Macy left she got 20% which was almost all of our cash. The same thing happened when Shari left but there were other things she took when she left.
Do any of your sisters work or do anything to make money?  Or is this 100% Steve’s department?

Christie does tax stuff on the side and I cook and cater sometimes if there is work but Steve handles all the important things like the house, bills, and etc.

Thanks, and I still love reading your blog. 


Sincerely,

Jay D.

You're welcome! (-:

70 Questions from Jolie

Jolie is an LDS lady living in Canada and she sent me the following questions (with my answers next to them)

01: Do you have a good relationship with your parents?

 

Nope.

 

02: Who did you last say “I love you” to?

 

My daughter Patty.

 

03: Do you regret anything?

 

Yes.

 

04: Are you insecure?

 

Yes.

 

05: What is your relationship status?

 

Married. Sort of.

 

06: How do you want to die?

 

In bed surrounded by many, many great grandchildren, grandchildren, and children!

 

07: What did you last eat?

A simple salad.

 

08: Played any sports?

 

Volleyball in high school.

 

09: Do you bite your nails?

 

Sometimes.

 

10: When was your last physical fight?

 

Geez. Tenth grade, I think.

 

11: Do you like someone?

 

Yes.

 

12: Have you ever stayed up 48 hours?

 

Nope, never!

 

13: Do you hate anyone at the moment?

 

No one in particular, nope.

 

14: Do you miss someone?

 

Macy.

 

15: Have any pets?

 

Oh yes!!!

 

16: How exactly are you feeling at the moment?

 

Pensive. Wondering what the year will have in store for me.

 

17: Ever made out in the bathroom?

 

(-:

 

18: Are you scared of spiders?

 

A little but not like they make me scream.

 

19: Would you go back in time if you were given the chance?

 

No, but I'd go forward if I could.

 

20: Where was the last place you snogged someone? (Snogged = a romantic kiss)

 

In bed.

 

21: What are your plans for this weekend?

 

I don't really have any plans. Going to church tomorrow is about the only thing I have planned.

 

22: Do you want to have kids? How many?

 

I have six children and not sure about more right now.

 

23: Do you have piercings? How many?

 

Nope, none.

 

24: What is/are/were your best subject(s)?

 

Any more my best subject is reading/writing!

 

25: Do you miss anyone from your past?

 

Old friends who cut ties with me when I chose this life.

 

26: What are you craving right now?

 

A dark beer. Seriously!!!

 

27: Have you ever broken someone’s heart?

 

Yes, but he was a stalker. Not sure if that counts or not.

 

28: Have you ever been cheated on?

 

Not really.

 

29: Have you made a boyfriend/girlfriend cry?

 

Nope.

 

30: What’s irritating you right now?

 

Hillary Clinton. Why isn't she in jail for what she did with her email?

 

31: Does somebody love you?

 

YES!!! LUCKY ME!!!

 

32: What is your favourite color?

 

Blue.

 

33: Do you have trust issues?

 

Issues? I have subscriptions!!!!

 

34: Who/what was your last dream about?

 

I can't remember.

 

35: Who was the last person you cried in front of?

 

My husband.

 

36: Do you give out second chances too easily?

 

Probably.

 

37: Is it easier to forgive or forget?

 

I forget.

 

38: Is this year the best year of your life?

 

I hope it will be!!!

 

39: How old were you when you had your first kiss?

 

My first real romantic kiss was when I was 18.

 

40: Have you ever walked outside completely naked?

 

Yes, to go swimming!

 

51: Favourite food?

 

Dessert!

 

52: Do you believe everything happens for a reason?

 

I don't know.

 

53: What is the last thing you did before you went to bed last night?

 

Kissed my baby when I put her down for the night.

 

54: Is cheating ever okay?

 

No.

 

55: Are you mean?

 

I can be. Mess with my children and I think I can be pretty awful!

 

56: How many people have you fist fought?

 

Around five maybe.

 

57: Do you believe in true love?

 

Yes, but I don't think it happens for everyone.

 

58: Favourite weather?

 

Winter.

 

59: Do you like the snow?

 

Yes! I LOVE it!!!

 

60: Do you wanna get married?

 

I'd love to be legally married some day!!!

 

61: Is it cute when a boy/girl calls you baby?

 

I never really thought of it before. I suppose it's nice.

 

62: What makes you happy?

 

A baby in my arms.

 

63: Would you change your name?

 

Nope.

 

64: Would it be hard to kiss the last person you kissed?

 

Nope.

 

65: Your best friend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do?

 

I don't have a Best Guy Friend so it's not a worry.

 

66: Do you have a friend of the opposite sex who you can act your complete self around?

 

Nope.

 

67: Who was the last person of the opposite sex you talked to?

 

My husband.

 

68: Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with?

 

Christie.

 

69: Do you believe in soulmates?

 

Yes, I do.

 

70: Is there anyone you would die for?

 

My family, my friends, and my country.

Answers from my friends!

Hello!

Recently I asked a few questions of my readers and here are the answers that came via email:

Joe R. wrote:

Welcome to 2016 and Happy New Year! 

So something a little different here for my very first post of the new year!

I have some questions for YOU! Feel free to answer anonymously if you want or you can answer in email and I'll publish them anonymously if you want! 

1. Why do you read this blog? What do you get from it and what are you looking for from it?

Hi Megan, I read your blog for inspiration!  I get a glimpse into a life that I want for myself.  I think your poly family is so beautiful and amazing.  I read your blog so I can get insight as to what I might do to create a poly family of my own, with happy sister wives living with me.  I very much want to marry and have babies.   :) :) :) 

2. Poly: Are you for or against or…?   

I am absolutely for it, and I want this lifestyle for myself.

3. Are you poly curious? If so, care to tell me what you might be looking for in a poly situation? 

I am more than poly curious.  I am looking for a beautiful young woman to become my wife who wants to live like this with me, and walk in this path together before God.

4. Do you have any children? If no do you want any? 

Yes, I have one son from a previous relationship.  I LOVE being a father more than anything in the world, and yes I absolutely want more babies.  I want my son to have lots of brothers and sisters to grow up with!

5. How's your relationship doing? 

I am currently seeking a wife.  

6. Are you working or are you a student or…?

Both, actually.  I flew Helicopters in the Army and several many years on active duty.  I am still a reservist and very proud to serve my country.  I am now back in flight training for airplanes, as I transition to a career as a civilian airline pilot.

7. (Totally optional) How old are you? 

42

Megan, please keep me in your prayers.  I am still hoping to meet the beautiful and amazing woman of my dreams.  I am wanting a younger wife, who is wanting to be pregnant!  And also into the idea of building a poly family like yours.  I want a Christian girl who believes in poly.  I live in WA state, so I am open to a woman as young as 16, which is the legal age here.  If you know of any of your friends who wants a quality and loving family man, please let me know.  

Yours truly,

Joe

 

And Dan wrote:

 

Happy New Year :)

So... my turn to answer yours!

1. Why do you read this blog? What do you get from it and what are you looking for from it?

I read your blog because it's an honest, true account of poly life - the ups and downs and the picture of what a real family is like. I find it inspiring, entertaining and it feels like my support system in a sense for the lifestyle I believe in and want, that I'm not alone in what I want or think about.

2. Poly: Are you for or against or...?

I am "for." I dont believe its for everyone, or even most, but I think when done wisely and with communication and of course consent, it can be a very positive thing.

3. Are you poly curious? If so, care to tell me what you might be looking for in a poly situation? 

Absolutely. I am looking for a first to start living in a responsible, happy poly home with and pursue building a family together. Someone honest, kind and family oriented, who shares my beliefs.

4. Do you have any children? If no do you want any? 

No, but do want. 

5. How's your relationship doing? 

See #3.

6. Are you working or are you a student or...?

Full time employed small business owner. Saving to provide for my family.

7. (Totally optional) How old are you? 

30something :)

Best,

Dan

 

 

 

 

 

My questions for all of you!

Welcome to 2016 and Happy New Year!

So something a little different here for my very first post of the new year!

I have some questions for YOU! Feel free to answer anonymously if you want or you can answer in email and I'll publish them anonymously if you want!

1. Why do you read this blog? What do you get from it and what are you looking for from it?

2. Poly: Are you for or against or...?

3. Are you poly curious? If so, care to tell me what you might be looking for in a poly situation?

4. Do you have any children? If no do you want any?

5. How's your relationship doing?

6. Are you working or are you a student or...?

7. (Totally optional) How old are you?

I look forward to your answers!

- Megan