Monday, July 5, 2010

Sad news

This last week Steve and Shari had a lot of arguments and fighting and I am not sure what all of it was about but yesterday Shari stayed home from church and when we all got home she was gone and left a message saying she was going to her sister's place in Oregon. She called Steve last night and told him on the phone she was going to get a divorce. Shari is legally married to Steve so that means a legal divorce. Shari's daughters are here with us and they are really broken up about this. The rest of us are too.
I know some of what Shari was upset about was moving out of California and being away from Stevie and so many people she knows. I think there are other things too but I think this is the biggest problem and I don't know what to say about it.
Steve is really upset and depressed and went fishing today and was gone most of the morning. He came back with no fish so I think he just wanted private time to think is all. We're all giving him space right now and we're all kind of shocked with this too. Christie was seriously quiet and that is totally not like her to be that way and I know it is bothering her.
There really isn't anything else worth mentioning right now just this and we can use some prayer for healing right now. Thanks.


  1. Oh Megan I am so sorry to hear about the turmoil in your family. I will send lots of prayers and thoughts your way. Perhaps they will be able to work things out... I don't mean to pry but do you think that this has anything to do with steve adding a fourth wife? I know you mentioned a long while back that " under no circumstance would there be a fourth because shari didn't want one" but then you guys did add Macy. You don't have to answer I was just curious. Well... please keep us updated and I will be praying for your family, take care.

  2. I'm so sorry Megan. Shari has always been my favorite person in the story you have shared with us. This may be healed.

  3. its hard moving away from family and friends. i hope everything works out for the best.

  4. I will be praying for your family. I am sorry you are all going through this hard time.

  5. It sounds like a sensible decision on her part. Moving a family is a huge decision and if Steve ignored her opinion, that would be difficult to get past. I will light a candle that Shari will be healed.


  6. Could menopause have anything to do with it? I'm going through "the change" right now, and I have some big mood swings sometimes--maybe Shari could see her doctor about hormonal issues? Maybe there's a supplement, herbal, or medication that might help.